|im not crazy
||[Feb. 10th, 2005|05:42 pm]
Dr. Bill Williams
okay heres my life story. I grew up a little fast first off. im almost
forteen I have like three more months. but all my friends and half my
school has had sex and Ive only made out and been fingerd.
and Yeah I've been told time and time again that Im really mature for
my age. This summer I came reallly! close to having sex but I moved
away (hardest thing for me to do ever) because I was on my period. yeah
okay im wicked sketched out. okay ::breathes:: Ive been seriously
sexually frustrated since then. like masterbating alot. and theres this
guy. who I want to do really bad and he wants to do me. and we both
like each other and both have amazing boddies. okay! .
question A: should I do him? B: how do I dont want to screw up and I
just need the whole sex talk. that I never got because I dont get
health class and my parents are dumb. okay please write back.
Dont do it.
I lost my Virginity at 20 and soon after broke up with the girl. What I wouldnt give to be able to give my current Lover my virginity. The longer you wait, the better it is, but please dont take my word for it!!!
well...i for one would wait. your only fourteen and seriously it's way cooler if you wait. growing up i understood what sex was and always new i wasn't waiting for marriage, which in a small country town was a REAL shocker. that just didn't seem reasonable. but i wasn't willing to screw anything that popped up to say hello either. i grew up watching alot of porn, reading alot about sex and health issues, and mastubating. i was very mature for my age and didn't date anyone until i was 17. this was my choice because the guys my age were real idiots. so i dated someone three years older than i was and about four monts into the relationship we did it and we did it alot.just keep your cool about it and seriously people in that age catagory aren't mature enough to deal with the aftershock of sex. there are rumors, STDS, pregnancy, and heartbreak. it's not a popularity contest, but most treat it like one. sex to me isn't all physical it's mostly emotional. i'm currently with a guy seven years older than i am and we are in love. i'm bisexual but i believe that sex is the most satisfying when it's with someone you really care about. trust me it's mind blowing.
if you want to know more email me at Ophelia_515@hotmail.com. i'm not a scary stalker, that's really my photo and i'm just a normal girl.
I am a 39yr old women.. That lost her virginity at 14. I have done many things to possibly regret..but, thusfar like losing my Virginity. Way to early; take your time making out, dry humping. Learn to masterbate yourself. Never take off you pants if you don't want to have sex. Anything goes(rape)once there off. Also in my area your age groups has 1 of the highest rates for std's..Its hard enough out in the world.
Learn how to use a condom while giving a Blowjob..The techniques of a handjob every guy loves this..But,for your own sanity;learn how to use a room temp cucumber a hot house was my fav @ 15.And there cheap.Plus you can eat it when your done..I did eventually stop having intercourse after having done it 3times. Learned how to give head w/condom,handjob, mutual (when i was 17) masterbation.I never took my pants off again until i was 17.. Do you have a cool friends mom or Auntie..my niece is 13 and these are the things i say to her. Kitty
thanks, for the advice Id love to talk to you sometime
Im me or email me
Hi i sent you an e-mail off LJ..feel free to write anytime...kitty
2005-03-10 05:25 pm (UTC)
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Just because you say you have grown up fast doesn't mean you have. You said it yourself "I haven't had a sex talk and I don't have health class." Sex isn't something that you just do because everyone else is doing it sex is something you do because you are in love with the other person. PLUS you used the word "do" him. You shouldn't "do" him just because you think it might be cool and just because you are sexually frustrated.
The best sex I have ever had is with the person I love more than anything in this world. I'm 23 I've been married for 4 years please take my word for it and just wait. Its not worth it to just go around having sex with someone who will probably try and act like you don't exist after you "do" him.
One more thing just because you both have "hot bodies" doesn't make it alright to go out and have sex.
I'll never understand why it seems like every year the age teens are having sex drops........ soon 12 and 13 year olds will be having sex. It makes no sense to me..... and it makes me scared to have children of my own.
thank you for your help. I wasnt going to have sex because everyone else did. I felt so sexually frustrated that I just needed to be held. I guess all this is just growing up.
and to that other person whom said I should work on my english skills. im actually winning an award out of my school for being a good writter. wiether I choose to show it off. or something is my choice, I've run out of people to impress.
i lost mine when i was 19 and it was the biggest mistake i ever made.
Just remember the boys will talk about the girls who will do it and the girls you won't..I know it is'nt very popular to be the smart one..However when your a bit older and big hot brain and a hot bod..Will take you much farther the just a hot bod..I to had a hot bod; My regret is the fact that i did'nt have hot brain. It has taken me many years to reverse the damage i caused myself by not using the word NO..Oh I still on occasion will Jill off with a hot house..I like to flirt with the my produce guy. hehehe
Even after all these years still hot just smarty now..Feel free to read my journal and ask me anything..I am open for discussion.Kitty